Day Game 3: Mall Hours

Day Game 3: Mall Hours

Goal:
- eliminate AA
- opening a walking set

After my class, I have to go to a department store to buy some perfume for my cousin (yes, my cousin! and it's her birthday tomorrow). In the department store, I found it hard to look for the store boutique that sell particular perfume. I know right away that I can used my problem to initiate a talk to women. So, I scan the area for possible target or set that I can talk to.

Alas, I noticed a one-set walking from my behind, I knew right away that she is a 8.5, (yes, an 8.5!). Some hesitation. I should approach her before we change each other direction. walking past a few steps from her, i slightly turn back.

Me: Excuse me, Do you know where is the Bench Shop?
HB: (she stop for a while) Hmmm, I think it's in the second floor.
Me: Yes, I used to think it's in that area. I got lost.
HB: Sure, it is in the second floor.
Me: ok, Thank you!

And of I go. Damn, I can't escalate the situation. I don't even know her name.

Lessons Learned:
- I know how to turn to target without being sleazy
- difficult to approach a walking set
- generate companionship

Thing to Work Out:
- improve convo to encourage set to join go to shop
- approach more walking sets to improve escalation
- escalate convo and improve to # close

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Day Game 2: At the school - AA's on the Move - Opening a 2-set, make that 3

Goal:
- still erase AA
- opening a set without intention but just for the talk
- erase procrastination

As I was looking around at the school hoping to glance a single set to approach, my AA overtake me whenever I see one. I do see one HB8 sitting in the bench. I now lock my target but again my AA overtake. I just keep on staring her, my knees are shaking, my mind are out. So I figure out, I cannot approach her. Damn!

So what I did, I just walk around hoping to find another one. Alas, I found a 2-set, one HB7 and HB7.5. I try to fight my AA's out. I just say to my self, I just want to talk to them. The convo goes like this:

Me: Today is Saturday, why I see students in there school uniforms? (But they are in there PE uniforms)
HB7.5: It is a pre-final day.
Me: But your on PE uniform, do you have exam too?
HB7.5: Yes, PE 4 ( PE4 means they're in their second year - probably just 18y/o)

and I keep notice HB7 is quite...

Me: (to HB7) so, Are you to classmate, I guess?
HB7: yes
Me: by the way I'm Ahoz
HB7.5: I'm Naughty
HB7: I'm Shy
Me: I'm not gonna stay long, coz I have my class in 9am. So, Who is the most intelligent? ( I had my eyes on HB7.5)
Hb7: *giggle*

blah blah blah...

Then their another classmate, a HB7, join them, and they become 3-sets, that makes me a bit harder to extend the talking...

Me: Hello, my name is Ahoz, I just take a chit chat with your friend.
HB7: *nodded*

I exited after a while without even asking for their numbers. Lame!


Lessons Learned:
- 3-second rule is importance
- I found out I'm okay with Cold Approach

Thing to Work Out:
- improve way to approach 2 or 3 sets
- specify target
- escalate convo
- improve convo to # close

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Day Game 1: The Banana Bait

Day Game 1: The Banana Bait

Goal:
- erase AA

There was this HB7 standing outside our office, then one of my co-worker dare me to approach the girl. I said, "I will approach her if you would give me that banana"... And so we agreed, that give me enough courage to approach a person.

I was thinking of an opener, and here is part of our convo:

Ahoz: Hello, are you waiting for someone in our office?
HB7: hmmm, no. (looking away from me)
Ahoz: OK, I thought you are waiting for someone.
HB7: Yes, I was waiting for my BF.
Ahoz: Ok, I just go ahead. Thanks.

LOL, I never thought of that statement and I never escalate to even know her name... hahaha, lame! but well, I still get the reward.

Lessons Learned:
- It easier to approach if somebody force you to
- anxiety diversion by baiting self of the reward

Things To Work:
- 3 seconds rule
- AA overcome
- learn to escalate
- overcome BF-block

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Day 0: Attacking AFC mode

I am Ahoz:
I am 29; medium built (when I say medium it means, 5'5" with 180lbs);

I have been reading about this forum for quite a time now. I've been motivated to write my own experience, and be guided of the way it deals me.

Basically, there was no difficult for me initiating a conversation. I am friendly, BUT, this is not really applicable when I encounter a HB 8-10. I was such a dork, I just stare them (AFC mode), but I can't initiate a conversation nor approach the HB. How much more if they go by sets. I can open a conversation with HB6-7, higher than them, I cannot...

This I found out, I can go on conversation if I have no intentions of what so ever in them. I can talk to stranger about some directions. I can talk to any person, but I just can't escalate the situation.

So here I am, posting in this forum, hoping someone will correct the way I deal with my approaches.

Who Am I:

• I am currently in AFC mode
• AA is eating me

Goals:

• Erase AA
• Attract women
• Increase confidence
• Lost Weight in order to Increase Attraction (current weight above...)
• being not needy, sleazy
• change my status ;)

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Ahoz PUA Field Guide

I was reading some stuff about PUA, then it came to my mind to start a diary about it. This way, I will know my progress, if ever there was.

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Alaska Sweeps 2010 KFC Philippine Cup Semis

With a score of 102-95, Alaska bring themselves back to the Finals Arena. Alaska fought hard in order to bring Ginebra into demise as they sweep their own semis, 4-0.

Hugnatan dominates the paint with some of his turn around moves. He scored 18 points and 10 rebounds enough to give him the best player of the game.

The Kings shakes off Aces in some time when Mamaril's hits a jumper to tie up the game at 85. However, Ace's Tenorio breaks it up with his three coupled with Devance 3-point play coming from a fast break.

Alaska can take a rest for a moment while waiting for the result of another semis between San Miguel and Purefoods. They tied the semis at 2-2.

TalkTaBai

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