Day Game 3: Mall Hours

Day Game 3: Mall Hours

Goal:
- eliminate AA
- opening a walking set

After my class, I have to go to a department store to buy some perfume for my cousin (yes, my cousin! and it's her birthday tomorrow). In the department store, I found it hard to look for the store boutique that sell particular perfume. I know right away that I can used my problem to initiate a talk to women. So, I scan the area for possible target or set that I can talk to.

Alas, I noticed a one-set walking from my behind, I knew right away that she is a 8.5, (yes, an 8.5!). Some hesitation. I should approach her before we change each other direction. walking past a few steps from her, i slightly turn back.

Me: Excuse me, Do you know where is the Bench Shop?
HB: (she stop for a while) Hmmm, I think it's in the second floor.
Me: Yes, I used to think it's in that area. I got lost.
HB: Sure, it is in the second floor.
Me: ok, Thank you!

And of I go. Damn, I can't escalate the situation. I don't even know her name.

Lessons Learned:
- I know how to turn to target without being sleazy
- difficult to approach a walking set
- generate companionship

Thing to Work Out:
- improve convo to encourage set to join go to shop
- approach more walking sets to improve escalation
- escalate convo and improve to # close

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Day Game 2: At the school - AA's on the Move - Opening a 2-set, make that 3

Goal:
- still erase AA
- opening a set without intention but just for the talk
- erase procrastination

As I was looking around at the school hoping to glance a single set to approach, my AA overtake me whenever I see one. I do see one HB8 sitting in the bench. I now lock my target but again my AA overtake. I just keep on staring her, my knees are shaking, my mind are out. So I figure out, I cannot approach her. Damn!

So what I did, I just walk around hoping to find another one. Alas, I found a 2-set, one HB7 and HB7.5. I try to fight my AA's out. I just say to my self, I just want to talk to them. The convo goes like this:

Me: Today is Saturday, why I see students in there school uniforms? (But they are in there PE uniforms)
HB7.5: It is a pre-final day.
Me: But your on PE uniform, do you have exam too?
HB7.5: Yes, PE 4 ( PE4 means they're in their second year - probably just 18y/o)

and I keep notice HB7 is quite...

Me: (to HB7) so, Are you to classmate, I guess?
HB7: yes
Me: by the way I'm Ahoz
HB7.5: I'm Naughty
HB7: I'm Shy
Me: I'm not gonna stay long, coz I have my class in 9am. So, Who is the most intelligent? ( I had my eyes on HB7.5)
Hb7: *giggle*

blah blah blah...

Then their another classmate, a HB7, join them, and they become 3-sets, that makes me a bit harder to extend the talking...

Me: Hello, my name is Ahoz, I just take a chit chat with your friend.
HB7: *nodded*

I exited after a while without even asking for their numbers. Lame!


Lessons Learned:
- 3-second rule is importance
- I found out I'm okay with Cold Approach

Thing to Work Out:
- improve way to approach 2 or 3 sets
- specify target
- escalate convo
- improve convo to # close

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Day Game 1: The Banana Bait

Day Game 1: The Banana Bait

Goal:
- erase AA

There was this HB7 standing outside our office, then one of my co-worker dare me to approach the girl. I said, "I will approach her if you would give me that banana"... And so we agreed, that give me enough courage to approach a person.

I was thinking of an opener, and here is part of our convo:

Ahoz: Hello, are you waiting for someone in our office?
HB7: hmmm, no. (looking away from me)
Ahoz: OK, I thought you are waiting for someone.
HB7: Yes, I was waiting for my BF.
Ahoz: Ok, I just go ahead. Thanks.

LOL, I never thought of that statement and I never escalate to even know her name... hahaha, lame! but well, I still get the reward.

Lessons Learned:
- It easier to approach if somebody force you to
- anxiety diversion by baiting self of the reward

Things To Work:
- 3 seconds rule
- AA overcome
- learn to escalate
- overcome BF-block

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Day 0: Attacking AFC mode

I am Ahoz:
I am 29; medium built (when I say medium it means, 5'5" with 180lbs);

I have been reading about this forum for quite a time now. I've been motivated to write my own experience, and be guided of the way it deals me.

Basically, there was no difficult for me initiating a conversation. I am friendly, BUT, this is not really applicable when I encounter a HB 8-10. I was such a dork, I just stare them (AFC mode), but I can't initiate a conversation nor approach the HB. How much more if they go by sets. I can open a conversation with HB6-7, higher than them, I cannot...

This I found out, I can go on conversation if I have no intentions of what so ever in them. I can talk to stranger about some directions. I can talk to any person, but I just can't escalate the situation.

So here I am, posting in this forum, hoping someone will correct the way I deal with my approaches.

Who Am I:

• I am currently in AFC mode
• AA is eating me

Goals:

• Erase AA
• Attract women
• Increase confidence
• Lost Weight in order to Increase Attraction (current weight above...)
• being not needy, sleazy
• change my status ;)

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